Okay I figured out what I was doing wrong trying to upload/copy files on the server.
When you say - to assign MIME type "video/x-flv" to ".flv" files - what exactly are you saying? I understood the .flv files needed to be encoded for the scrubbing/seeking in the players, but are you talking adding the MIME type to the html page the flash video is embedded into or the actual video?
If it is the actual video that you change the MIME type to, I have no clue and could use your expertise, thank you very much...
I still have a couple of other questions as well -
To get max. performance out of this server, I need to use the LSAPI in php just as you'd use the FastCGI in Lighttpd or am I wrong? If this is correct, do you still use the http protocol in the embedded call or something different?
Thanks again for your time, I do appreciate it very much...