Configure it correctly out of the box
Thank you for your note.
Actually offering correct default configuration is a first good step to engendering trust in your software and your company.
Making a mystery of this and putting shaky defaults into the default configuration for the Standard Edition is not very nice and not very good business.
Configuration instructions should include checking the queue limit and matching it to the maximum connections.
And it would be nice to have a better guide on how to set this properly for maximum performance on the Standard Edition.
Having to play Blind Man's bluff in the dark is not much fun and a great waste of your users' time.
Perhaps you could bring yourself to actually make some articulate suggestion on configuration so we could set up our servers properly and not have to guess.