so; i can't find another solution to make this settings well. i changed my entire system to litespeed and im really happy about that. its really best performance tuning solution.
my problem is: the server is going down everytime. avearage cpu usage is %80. maybe something wrong with my mysql my.cnf settings, i don't know. i am not good at this management stuffs.
i need your tips about optimize my php.ini, httpd.conf and my.cnf with full performance.